Leadership

There is a particular meeting that every leadership team eventually sits in. The scoreboard says everyone won. The results say otherwise. Every department hit its goals. The company missed its year. Nobody in the room underperformed. Nobody slacked. And that is what makes it so disorienting, because the usual explanations do not apply. You cannot point at a person. There is no obvious failure to fix. Here is what is almost always going on. The Goals Were Reasonable. They Were

Ask a leader to name their best performer and they will answer immediately. Ask them to describe what good looks like in that person's role, without mentioning hours, effort, or availability, and watch what happens. The pause is the whole problem. Last month I wrote about how organizations default to measuring time because value was never defined. The response I heard most was a fair one. Fine, so how do I define it? Here is the answer, and it is smaller than people expect. F

In July, my son passed his Army Combat Field Test. As he crossed the line, his sergeant turned to the soldier who finished right behind him and said, "You just let a guy who hasn't run in two months beat you." I have been turning that morning over ever since, and not for the reason you would expect. The proud-mom part is easy. The part I keep coming back to is what the Army had done months before he ever showed up that day. They told him exactly what good looked like. The Sta

A while back, I sat with a CEO who had built a genuinely good leadership team. Smart people. Well-intentioned. Real commitment to the company. And yet nobody was holding anybody to anything. Deadlines slipped. Decisions got relitigated. And the CEO was quietly filling the holes herself, wondering why everything kept routing back to her. Why This Looks Like a People Problem (And Isn’t) If you lead a team, you’ve probably lived some version of this. And the instinct is to read

Every firm has one. The person whose name never tops the billing report, but whose exit would quietly take a piece of the firm with it. You know the type. Not the highest utilization, just the highest everything-else. In a lot of professional services firms, that makes them invisible, because we’ve decided your value is your billable hours, and their best work doesn’t bill. Because the work that also keeps a firm alive rarely shows up. Developing the next generation of staff

Ask a leader who their best performer is, and they’ll answer without hesitating. Ask them how they know, and watch what happens. Usually, it comes back to something that they can see. Who’s always here. Who’s always slammed. Who bills the most hours. And if you ask how they hold that person accountable, you’ll almost always hear the same word: responsibilities. “I hold my people accountable to their responsibilities.” Here’s the problem. Doing your responsibilities and creati

BCG research says 70% of AI deployment success comes from people, process, and context. Sauder says only 25% of leaders have a comprehensive AI roadmap. Grant Thornton says only 6% of executives recognize change leadership as the critical AI skill. The math tells you exactly where AI ROI is leaking. Here is what that costs, and how to close the gap. The Question I Keep Hearing A CEO called me last quarter. Her organization had just finished a six-figure AI rollout. New tools,

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The empty nest, whether at home or at work isn’t an ending. It’s a threshold. What you choose to do with it will define the kind of leader you become. Will you resist the change and hold onto old roles that no longer serve you? Or will you see the emptiness as space, space to grow, evolve, and create something new? Because in the end, transitions don’t define us. Our response to them does.

If you’ve ever packed up your desk for the last time, whether by choice or by circumstance, you know the silence that follows. No morning meetings. No unread emails waiting. Just stillness.

I can't remember who said this but it's one I've always loved: 🏔 "What if you jump off the cliff and it's a marshmallow landing?" It's a...

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